BEHOLD!
Alright guys! The day has finally come! Our son Bernardo Carrera was born at 3:24 PM on August 2nd. He was 8 pounds and 4 ounces, and 21.5 inches. He's healthy and perfect, and our surrogate is also doing great. Yay! A dream come true. Adan and I are ecstatic. And, in a way, have been overcome by a peace and calm that's hard to explain. It's like everything "fits" now. Our surrogacy journey has concluded. Or has it just begun? I know there'll be tons of things to write about over the next few years...How do we "break it" to our son about our unique situation? How do we explain the fact that he has two dads? What if he wants to meet his gestational carrier someday? Do we include her in our lives? What about his mom, the egg donor? These things and much more, including the universal adventures of parenthood, are topics we'll inevitably encounter. But I'm glad that this ...